Are you looking to improve & spice up your sex life & your relationship both with your partner & your inner-self? Ever been to shy to actually go into an adult store or just wouldn't be caught dead in one? Or maybe you just have curiosities & concerns but could never find the nerve to actually ask someone face to face and quite a bit does spike your interest. Well, now's your chance, don't be shy, your secrets safe with me. I will provide you with a fun, comfortable & professional experience. As nothing makes me happier than to help make a real difference & open peoples minds to enjoy their sexual lives. Please feel free to send me a message & think of me as your very own private consultant. ♥

Saturday, January 28, 2012

"Seduce 'em Saturday"

"Seduce 'Em Saturday" Time to really get 'em goin' before even hittin' the sack. Below are 5 tips that'll help to make your baby be putty in your hands. ;-)

Everything starts with flirtation.  Wittiness and innuendos can create a lot of sexual tension. There’s nothing more seductive than being paid attention to. Whisper a little something sexy, subtly touch or rub sensitive spots.

Confidence is extremely sexy. Know & feel good about yourself. Hold your head high & know that they truly desire you. Know that they're the lucky one to have you. Although, don't get too cocky with it. Still being somewhat humble. Your Sexy & You Know It ;-)

Stare deeply into each others eyes.  Think how much you want the other & what you want to do to them, see if they can guess whats truly on your mind. But don't be too obvious. Keep 'em guessing.

Make the other wonder and chase you, play a little hard to get, but be subtle let them know you desire them. Don't give in too easily. A challenge is sexy.

Dress up in attire that is not too provocative, leave some for the imagination. Showing your best features, maybe their favorite dress or shirt etc. Add a little class. Dress up just because. Wear their favorite cologne or perfume or better yet something with phermones, bringing out the natural oils in your skin sending out an odor that attracts.

Now, of course everyone is different, know & learn your partners weaknesses, what makes them cringe & weak in the knees. Or challenge yourself to make new ones that they never knew they had.

This must be done fully clothed & outside the bedroom, the point is for THEM to get YOU there or who knows maybe your seductive moves worked so well, they just couldn't wait. You've succeeded, job well done ;-)

Friday, January 27, 2012

"Foreplay" Tank ft. Chris Brown Video

Tank ft. Chris Brown

Foreplay Friday

"Foreplay Friday" C'Mon who doesn't like a little Foreplay? ;-) Instead of your usual "hurry up, let's get this done & over with" bit, take it nice & slow & Focus on the Foreplay ;-) Have A Fantastic Friday ;-)

Thursday, January 26, 2012

"Wet & Wild Wednesday"

Morning, Noon or Night, Have A Little Fun in The Shower ;-)
Two Great Reads from Cosmo & check 'em out ;-)

"So you've covered just about every nook and cranny in the house and you're finally ready to upgrade to "Water Sex." Well, prepare yourself to get wet and nasty because today's sex tip is all about the part of your house that is commonly used for less-than-sexual things -- that's right, the bathroom." -

Have A Wet & Wild Time ;-)

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

TOYS, TOYS, TOYS! Who Wants To Play?

Now, contrary to popular belief, the adult entertainment industry is recession proof, heck if anything it is growing by the minute. First & foremost, people (particularly women) are more open minded nowadays than ever before. Due to the economy and people not going out as much anymore, they're staying home a lot more, so they need something to do, right? Well, what better! ;-) The gaming industry for example, has grown emensly over the years, due to everyone needing to stay home. And let's not get started with how many couples are having babies left & right. ;-) So Yes, Sexual Intercourse is quite popular, wouldn't you say?

Adult novelties are in the midst of a renaissance.
Although, on the other hand, despite high unemployment rates and shoestring household budgets, America continues to find money in its pocket for sex toys. If you’re in a relationship, you need to spend more time with your partner and this often leads to wanting to rekindle or enhance a sexual relationship. In a recession, people are seeing that sex is a way to not spend a lot of money. If you buy a sex toy for $150, that’s going to buy you a lot more entertainment in the long run than a dinner or show. That $150 price tag might surprise some people. While certainly there are hundreds, probably thousands of toys that cost significantly less, the best sellers in the current economy are high end items.

What are sex toys?

Sex toys can be an exciting way to spice up your sexual life, whether using them by yourself or with others. There are many misconceptions that sex toys are only used by people who choose to remain abstinent, do not currently have sexual partners, or by gay men and lesbians. The truth is, people of all types use sex toys. Some choose to use them when they are alone, on their sexual partners, or on themselves while partners are present. 

How can I bring sex toys into my relationship?

Sometimes it’s hard to communicate our sexual desires to our partners, especially when wanting to bring something new into a sexual relationship. Some people may feel threatened by the thought of having sex toys added to their sexual life or they have stereotypes about who uses sex toys. Honesty and open communication are the best strategies for talking with sexual partners about sex toys. Your partner needs to understand where you’re coming from, what you’re interested in doing, and how you will respect their boundaries, in order for sex toys to be a healthy, pleasurable part of your relationship.

XBIZ Magazine Lists Top Sex Toys of 2011
From groundbreaking technology to downright freaky fetishes, 2011 introduced a whole new wave of products that changed the world of sex toys. Culled from a long list of pleasure product contenders vying for honors at the 2012 XBIZ Awards, XBIZ Magazine is pleased to present the Top Sex Toys of 2011. Read More »

As the Mercedes Benz of sex toys, Lelo rolls out nothing but luxury. The SenseMotion Insignia line ups the ante with revolutionary technology characterized by unique motion-activated controls that work via a wireless remote and a 39 foot wireless connection. The SenseMotion Insignia collection features three massagers that respond to a flick of the wrist or a tilt of the palm. A Great Featured Toy is 

TIANI The Premier Wearable Couples' Massager with Wireless Remote

Tiani™ is a landmark creation for couples the world over; a luxurious addition to your love life that can be worn by women during intercourse or for an intimate hands-free experience. Featuring revolutionary SenseMotion™ technology with a wireless remote, a simple flick of the wrist will adjust vibration patterns at any time you choose. More than this, the waterproof silicone design and smooth flexible form brings absolute comfort to both partners – making a great experience even better, while setting a new standard for couples massagers in the world today.

From now until February 14, our beautiful Tiani is available in a limited-edition Valentine’s Gift Sleeve. The heart-shaped design on rose petals slips beautifully over the existing packaging, making this the perfect gift to spice up those romantic nights in. Get Yours Now. Lelo

Have A Great Time Playin' Around


Monday, January 23, 2012

MmmMmm Monday Night Post "Bon Appetit"

To add on to my Mmm Mmm Monday, Just some helpful information & facts you might find interesting. Oral sex is an amazing way to enjoy your foreplay ventures before gettin' down to the Nitty Gritty. If you notice below with some Fun Facts I stated,  many can reach that Special O, just with a little tongue action. Just take a little trip downtown & have a fun with it. A great idea is actually some edible pleasures along with it. Such as your favorite foods you have at home and/or some naughty novelty items ie: Edible Body Paints, Edible Undies & so on & so forth. There are many ways & fun products that can be used. Try It & Have Yourself A Fantastic Feast & Delicious Desert to end your Monday Madness. Bon Appetit 
Here are some Mmm Mmm products that you might enjoy. 
And should you be interested just click on this link for many more: Tantus, Inc.
Edible Body Paint, Strawberries & Champagne $12.99 - 
The wonderful way to enhance your creative, sexual explorations! Use this chocolate body paint and paint brush to write love poems, draw hearts, flowers, and reveal your artistic side. Tastes exquisite and is non-staining for easy clean up. 3.5 oz

Edible Body Paint, Chocolate $12.99

Aphrodiasiac Oil Strawberry and Champagne $15.99

Sizzling Body Candy $4.99
ID Juicy Lube - Pina-Colada, 3.8 oz $15.99

Fun Facts For You:
"Many of the ingredients in chocolate are proven to cause arousal similar in effect to sexual foreplay. In fact, some experts believe chocolate may be even more effective than foreplay for sexual arousal."
Source: JoAnn and Erica Orloff. 2001. Dirty Little Secrets: True Tales and Twisted Trivia about Sex. New York, NY: MacMillan Publishing Company, Inc.

"Just a decade ago, only 25% of women reported experiencing orgasm as a result of intercourse. In recent years, this number has risen to about 45%. In contrast, over 80% of women report experiencing orgasm though oral sex"
Source- Kanner, Bernice. 2005. Are You Normal About Sex, Love, and Relationships? La Vergne, TN: Lightning Source, Inc.
"Men give oral sex as much as they receive it.
Contrary to popular wisdom again, men — especially older men — give as much oral sex to women as women give to men. While the difference is greatest in the 20 to 24 year old range (with only 55 percent of men saying they’ve given it in the past year, compared to 74 percent of women), the tables turn as we age. In the 30 to 39 age range, 69 percent of men report having given a woman oral sex, while only 59 percent of women have.
In other age ranges, the differences are far less greater, with only a few percentage points differentiating the two groups.
70 percent of women claimed to have received oral sex from a man in the 20 to 24 age group, but only 55 percent of men admitted to having given oral to a woman. Sixty-two percent of men aged 40 to 49 claimed they received oral, but only 53 percent of women said they gave it."
Source: Dr. John Grohol - CEO and founder of Psych Central

Mmm Mmm Monday

Mondays Always Suck, So End Your Night with a Feast & Delicious Desert ;-)

Sunday, January 22, 2012

So I have something special for you to do for everyday of the week. "MelB's Daily To Do's" Today being Sexy Sundays you should surprise your baby with some Sexy Lingerie.
Being in a ong term relationship and/or marriage we tend to forget to dress in Sexy Lingerie for our significant others. We get so comfortable & caught up in our daily duties, when we get ready for bed, we're so over the day & so tired, we just throw on our comfy sweats and T's or what not, our partners very rarely see us be Sexy for them. So to end your week that you've had & before you begin the next one. Why not make it a point to have a sexy night & end the week right. Dress in nice lingerie & feel good about yourself. Nothing is more attactive than a woman with confidence. Let him look at you, maybe do a little strip tease, wear some sexy shoes, and have a night filled with passion & intamacy.
The Company Lelo, of which I blogged about earlier on with some great toys, also has nice, good quality Intimate Apparel.
Sussurra™ is LELO’s luxurious line of lingerie and loungewear. This premier collection makes use of silk stripe chiffon, silk satin and silk habutai in the most desirable pieces for women and men. By using only the finest silk fabrics, LELO delivers a truly unique range of items crafted with the highest attention to quality and style.

Visit their site below and see for yourself, treat yourself & him, and feel good in more ways than one.
Have A Super Sexy Sunday
This company has very nice, high quality products. Click the link below & check out their Lingerie and Lounge wear for both the Ladies & Gents.

"Lingerie" Usher Video

Check this Sexy Song by Usher ;-)

"Lingerie"- Usher
Sexy Sundays ;-) Surprise your love in some Sexy Lingerie and Have A Super Sexy Sunday ;-)

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Erotic Massage & Tantric

With all our daily stresses & worries, we tend to forget & pay attention to what's most important, and that's ourselves & our well being. If we do not take care of ourselves how can we take care of our loved ones. Stress unfortunately does quite a number on us physically & mentally which affects our performance and energy level.  So why not treat yourself & your partner to a way that relaxes you the most. That makes you feel good in so many ways, and helps with many things that are important in our body & soul. Make the effort & take the time to take care of yourself & your partner often & you'll be amazed with the results.
Below is a great quote & video by an expert who knows best.
After all, you both work hard at living the life you do. You deserve it  :-)
"Do you know how to get your lover – mind, body and soul, to crave your essence?
Well stop thinking, and start learning!
The human mind and body are constantly exposed to stress, and as we know stress dulls the mind and senses. It is simply – sensory overload and the and mind and body shut down to compensate.
By taking the time to envelope my lover's body with amazing sensations I discovered that I could reduce their stress levels (as well as mine!) , lift mood, create a sizzling erotic experience, give incredible pleasure, and induce a state of the deepest relaxation. All while exploring every inch of their body.
Within this deep and profound relaxation – touch, pleasure, intimacy, seduction and arousal were all increased 10, 20, 50x over.
I’m sure you’ll agree with me, that physical and emotional pleasure is a wonderfull conduit to relaxation, great health, glow, vitiality and intimacy.The exploration of new ideas and the expansion of the mind is what makes us grow. New experiences give us the opportunities to add to the quality and depth of our lives." -Maya Silverman

Sensual Saturday

After a long hard work week, the two of you deserve a nice, head to toe,sensual massage. You know what that leads to ;-)

Friday, January 20, 2012

Fantasy Fridays

Every Friday dress up in Sexy Fantasy wear & do some fun role playing. Your love might need a check up or you might need to do some house cleaning ;-)
"At Your Service My Dear" ;-)

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Melb's Suggested Seductive Cocktail

For Your Thirsty Thursday ;-)

Thirsty Thursdays

Wind down every Thursday night. Whether it be with your baby or by yourself. Slip into something sexy & relax with a nice glass of wine or even better a Seductive Cocktail ;-) You Deserve It

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Wild Wednesdays

Every Wed. Go Buck Wild!! ;-) Try something Wild & Crazy with your lover, be fun & daring.
Happy Hump Day ;-)

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Teasing Tuesdays

Every Tuesday you must Tease your partner. Tease them all day off & on or all at once when the time is right. Send teasing text messages or leave a seductive voicemail, find their sensitive spots. Catch is, only tease don't give in ;-) Have Fun
Keep It Sexy
MelB ♥♥♥♥

Monday, January 16, 2012

"Between The Sheets" Isley Brothers Video

For your Makeout Monday ;-) Enjoy

Makeout Mondays

Tonight be daring, try making out somewhere you haven't yet & Enjoy the thrill ;-)

Sunday, January 15, 2012

"Think Like A Man" Jennifer Hudson Video

Great song! Miss Hudson does it again with her amazing voice. Nice collaboration. Both book & movie worth checking out
Great & Funny Tips ;-)

Friday, January 13, 2012

Fellas, how would you like a Sexy Black Kitty to cross your path tonight? MEOW ;-)

End your Friday the 13th with 13 New Positions, dress in a Sexy black kitty costume & Get Lucky Tonight

Thursday, January 12, 2012

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          The best & first move they did was actually consider, looking into it, getting through that door & taking that big step. Instead of just giving up, leaving the relationship and/or finding someone else to do the job, which is what most don't want to happen.
           I have found great joy in helping people out, especially couples in trouble, it's honestly what I have grown to love most about being in this field. With my help,advice & suggestions people have actually come crying to me with tears of shear gratitude & appreciation for saving their marriage and/or relationship. I also helped some couples from getting a divorce and yes even concieving babies, one couple actually named their 1st born after me ;-) Now, that's the greatest feeling in the world to me.
          So needless to say, trying new & fun things & keeping your relationship alive is the best thing you & anyone can do. I've seen it happen. Go out & discover & enjoy eachother. The possibilities are limitless. Good Luck My Friends.

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